So many people get lost in the system that it is hard to see the trees for the wood,.
I have been surprised at the number of the people getting in touch with Positive Personal. They feel confused, lost and out of touch, and lacking in confidence. Other people may have made them feel very inadequate. They feel they have wasted time on something that they realise is not for them.
There are unsatisfactory relationships that are not working out and the final realisation that no one is getting anywhere, they do not want to let that go in case they are left lonely.
There is nothing really wrong with any of these lost souls, they have just gone off the road and lost their way.
In such cases there is need for reappraisal and to seek some professional assistance from someone who will help you make up your mind so that you can move on. Avoid anyone who is going to tell you what to do, you have to do that yourself. So called friends and relatives may be the worst ones for putting you down, avoid them like the plague and confide in someone who has been there and done that before.
There is always light at the end of the tunnel and everyone has abilities and talents that they have to find.