Lacking Drive? - Listen To Yourself!

Are you lacking drive and perseverance? Personal change has to be worked at with a determination to succeed.

Have you decided what you want to do, be, and have?

What is it that you want to experience? When you desire personal growth, you first have to decide what it is you hope to achieve. You need to define your desire in clear compelling detail.

When you were younger did you know what you wanted to do when you grew up? Do you now find you are something entirely different, not at all the way you planned to be?

Have you listened to what others said was best thing for you, and gone along with their plans? Do you now find that, maybe, they were wrong? Now is the time to take back your life!

You are probably lacking drive because you're not being true to yourself, and are living your life as others expect of you.

Being happy means doing things that make you happy, not doing things because others say you should.

When you know what it is you want to do, don't let others try to talk you out of it. You can't live someone else's dreams. Stay true to yourself. Success is a journey, one that only you can take to make your life the way you want it.

Write a list of what you want in your life, pin it where you can see it, and read it every day. This will make what you want more real to you, and help keep your determination strong.

Visualize yourself being this way. Form a vivid picture, see how you will be when you are successful. Savor the feeling that comes with the pictures you visualize.

Believe in yourself. Believe it is possible to change. Your mind is a powerful instrument. It can deliver virtually anything you want, but you have to believe this is true.

Your subconscious will accept anything you tell it, because it can't tell the difference between a lie and the truth. Now you know why you can't do things, because you have told yourself you can't!

You can see it's important to tell yourself only positive words about how you are. This is a sure way to become confident, and to help your personal change.