Personal Drive - Mother Knows Best!
Are you lacking personal drive? Have you taken on something that you wished you'd never said yes to? This could be the reason!
My mum used to say, if you can't do something with a good heart, it's not worth doing.
I realize now that she was right, (mothers normally are aren't they!). When you don't have the right intention, there's a good chance you're not going to succeed. Unless you truly want to do something, the motivation won't be there.
Are you trying to do something, but your heart's not really in it? Do you find it difficult to work up the enthusiasm, and when you do, everything is just an effort, and so you give up.
When someone asks you to do something, do you say yes when you want to say no? Everyone has a choice, which, of course, means that you can say no if you want to.
When you find yourself in this situation, and, unfortunately, many of us do, it will benefit you greatly if you try to do the job with a positive attitude, or, in the words of my mother, with a good heart.
This will enable you to get motivated, and maybe, just maybe, actually enjoy what you are doing.
If you can get the right attitude, and empower yourself with a positive intention, you will feel stronger and confident, and have the determination to get the job done.
However when you really don't want to do something, you always have a choice to either say yes, or no.
Being happy within yourself is important for your personal drive, and so whatever you decide, remember it was your decision! If you can't do something with a good heart, say No!
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