Our relationship is on the rocks!!!!!

by a gibson
(england)

Ive been with my boyfriend now for 16yrs, "yes" we have had our fall outs but sorted them but now this is serious.

My dad passed away a few weeks ago and of course I'm off work. My partner thinks I should be back in work now but I'm still grieving for my dad and don't feel up to work yet, so he has fallen out with me and thinks we need a break from each other. I don't in fact I need him more now! He wont speak to me and now I feel so ill with this I keep crying not eating and thinking I wish I was with my dad.

What can I do or say to put things right HELP!!! someone or should I just go. I don't know where I could go to my dad's house but I'm too frightened to go as dad passed away at home.