My Brother has not had a formal education is not working and is not willing to get married.

by A
(Florida)

My brother, my kid brother whom I love a lot is so much unlike me. He is 26 and did not complete his education. He does not have many friends and is not open to the thought of marriage in the future.

He is also not working anywhere. He whiles his time most of the time. He is into shares and stuff which I don't like.

He is so good looking that anyone would envy. I really want him to be like other boys of his age.

I had always thought of my brother as a great one but he is really not working on making my parents proud.

What should we as a family do? We are done with explaining things to him and now have given up.

So whatever we say, we say positive things to him just to motivate him.

I had never thought this would be his future.
I always subconsciously compare my husband and my brother and my brother seems to be nowhere despite his talents and good looks.

We as a family need serious thoughts on this.

Any help would be appreciated.