Unhappy in life

by Diya
(bangalore,karnataka,india)

Hi I am a 29 yr old mom with a toddler. I have very low self confidence. I always tend to read a lot of self help books and articles in order to improve myself but finally end up in the same situation. Also I cant take any decisions on my own. I am completely unhappy with my life.

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Unhappy in life.
by: Anonymous

Dealing with young children can be tiring and you need adult interaction. Is your child ready for a playgroup, that would give you connection with other mothers who are feeling the same way you are.
Take a look at what talents and interests that you have, you could have a lot to contribute by helping and teaching other people and in return have them show you new crafts and interests that you did not realise that you had.
By being a mother helper in a play group situation it would give you insights into young children.
Your toddler will finally grow older and more independent, bringing up children is transitional, as they grow they change and they become more independent and more challenging.
Unhappiness
by: Kay

You have a young child, this is a perfect way to get to meet other mothers who you can get to know and make friends with. Take your child to play groups or to the park and speak to other mothers, this will give you the opportunity to open widen your interests.

Life is all about making choices. How you are is the result of your own thoughts. Everything you do is the result of your thought. No one can choose them but you. When you aren't happy with how you are you hold the key to changing. No one can do this for you, only you.

How is this done? By changing the thoughts you have about yourself. However, it takes determination to change how you are, and giving up because it hasn't worked in a few weeks, is not the answer!

Your self talk is vital, it has to be positive, it has to be loving towards you. You can change your life if you make the effort. Stop today with all the negative thoughts you have, change them to positive and move forward with confidence into a new life of your choosing.

Good luck
Love,
Kay

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