I might be suffering from low self esteem

by Laura
(Mexico)

Well, I was raped a year ago. The thing is that now, after I believed I had a good self esteem, a guy is flirting with me and I don't think I'm good enough... I always think of reasons why he may be talking to me like: he wants to have me near because I'm good at school and not because he genuinely likes me, he just talked to me but not because I'm likeable.

It's as thought as if I wasn't good enough for someone to like me as a whole. I'm a perfectionist and I may have a kind of autism... help me, give me some advice if you think I've got a problem. Thank you very much.